Understanding ‘Ohana: The Heart of Hawaiian Family and Community

In Hawaiian culture, the term ‘ohana isn’t just a word; it’s a profound concept that shapes social interactions, community life, and personal identity. To truly understand ‘ohana is to dive into the very essence of what it means to live, love, and belong in Hawaii.

What is ‘Ohana?

At its core, ‘ohana means “family” in Hawaiian, but its meaning extends far beyond the nuclear family unit known in Western culture.

• Extended Family: ‘Ohana includes not only immediate family but also extended relatives, close friends, and even neighbors. This expansive definition reflects the Hawaiian belief in a broad, inclusive community where everyone has a place.
• Cultural Roots: The word ‘ohana is derived from ‘oha, which refers to the shoot of the taro plant (kalo), symbolizing growth and interdependence. Hawaiians see the taro plant as an ancestor, emphasizing the deep connection between family, nature, and sustenance.

The Spirit of ‘Ohana

• Mutual Support: One of the key aspects of ‘ohana is the mutual obligation to care for one another and extends beyond human connections to the land and sea. This support system is not just emotional but also practical, where members look out for each other’s well-being.
• Inclusivity: ‘Ohana includes those you choose to call family, making it possible for non-blood relatives to be as close as siblings or parents. This inclusivity fosters deep bonds across various communities.
• Respect and Responsibility: Within ‘ohana, there’s a great respect for elders (kupuna) and a sense of responsibility towards younger members (keiki). This hierarchy of care and learning is central to Hawaiian social structure.

‘Ohana in Daily Life

• Living Together: It’s common in Hawaii for multiple generations to live under one roof or close by, reinforcing family ties and support systems.
• Community Events: Gatherings, whether for celebrations or in times of need, are often community-wide, showcasing the ‘ohana spirit. From hula performances to traditional feasts (luau), these events are opportunities to strengthen community bonds.
• Hanai: The practice of hanai, or “adoption in heart,” where children are raised by relatives or close friends, underscores the flexible and inclusive nature of ‘ohana.

‘Ohana Beyond Hawaii

• Global ‘Ohana: With the diaspora of Hawaiian people, the concept of ‘ohana has spread globally. It’s not unusual for Hawaiian communities abroad to maintain this sense of extended family, keeping the Aloha spirit alive.
• Modern Interpretations: In contemporary settings, ‘ohana has been adopted in various contexts like workplaces (‘ohana zones’) or social initiatives where the community comes together to support each other.

Embracing ‘Ohana as a Visitor

• Openness to Connections: Visitors are often welcomed into the ‘ohana of those they meet, which can lead to lifelong friendships. If you have this opportunity – be open to these connections; they’re a chance to experience ‘ohana firsthand.
• Respect for Traditions: Understanding ‘ohana also means respecting the cultural practices that come with it, like the giving of lei or participating in community activities.
• Contribution and Sharing: You can become part of ‘ohana by contributing to the community, whether through volunteering, participating in cultural workshops, or simply sharing in the local way of life.

‘Ohana isn’t just a concept—it’s a way of life. It’s about the strength of community, the beauty of inclusivity, and the power of love. Whether you’re visiting Hawaii or lucky enough to call it home, embracing ‘ohana gives you a deeper connection to Hawaiian culture and a reminder of what truly matters: supporting and uplifting one another. No matter where you’re from you’re always welcome in ‘ohana. It’s a way of living where no one is left behind or forgotten. Mahalo for taking the time to learn about this treasured part of Hawaiian heritage!

by Honolulu Vibes